Everyone has a window. If you’re within your window, you’re calm, focused, you can handle things, you’re your best self. Some people have nice wide windows. Some people are dealing with things, like depression, ADHD, or a myriad of other issues—though no fault of their own—which narrows their window. It’s easier to push them off balance. If you know where the boundaries of your window are, it’s helpful.
Read MoreWhen you’re rising in a new skill, I think the toughest place to be is often that intermediate area. That middle-of-the-climb spot where you’re no longer a novice, but not yet great. I feel that this spot is the most frustrating and yet often the spot where we give ourselves the least amount of grace.
Read MoreFind people in your life who will lift you up, no matter how high or low you already are. Don’t be afraid to share your joys and sorrows.
Read MoreSince the start of spring, I have been forced into patience. I have been forced to go slower, more mindfully, in every passion in my life. I will hope that it is not forever, but I will try to learn.
Read MoreWe all have bad days. I have a couple of tips for getting through a bad day where you have to show up anyway.
Read MoreWhat do you do when you’re more afraid of the feelings you might have than the actual thing that might cause them?
Read MoreIs there a perfect place to write? I think there is. And I think it’s different for everyone.
Read MoreThe world can be overwhelming and things can seem pointless at times. But there are always simple things worth doing.
Read MoreAfter being shut in for so long, what’s it going to look like when we try and step out? Vacations? Dinners? How’s that working for everyone?
Read MoreEmotional muscles need exercise just like physical ones. Today I’m discussing the skillset that is involved in accepting a compliment.
Read MoreBeing able to give and receive feedback well is a skill that is worth developing. Not only will it help you grow your craft (whatever that may be) but you’ll be able to network and help others even more effectively.
Read MoreWe’re halfway between the winter solstice and the spring equinox. Time to reflect upon what to nurture this spring and what to shed with your winter coat.
Read MoreAre you aware of your emotional ‘tells’? Took me a while, but I find it’s helpful information.
Read MoreNot all introverts are wallflowers, just as not every extrovert is an in-your-face party animal.
Read MoreWherein I discuss the joys and practicality of intentional daydreaming, unmarred by to-do lists and rumination. and recommend the practice.
Read MoreMaybe you deserve a break. Especially if you’re your own worst critic.
Read MoreA reminder for my fellow disaster planners and myself. Be careful with your body and don’t borrow misery that’s not yours.
Read MoreI’m reinventing myself yet again. Spring has always been a time of transition, and Beltane is a transition within the transition.
Read MoreLearning to relax into the moment while still striving to be my best.
Read MoreThere was a time when I would write no matter where I was. At some point I lost that.
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